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It is important to me that you understand, that I do not deal with Dominance as a full-time occupation and that Dominating, for me, is not a lifestyle, an everyday thing, an easy solution or a way of life. Dominance is a sexual pleasure for me, that I am privileged to have access to a few times a week. This of course means that I do not play all the time and therefore am not as flexible as so many others, but it also means that I have great desire and energy in the hours that I spend in my Studio.

You, submissive men, are not created equal. Fortunately! Every individual strength and/or weakness must be explored differently, but with the same curiosity and thoroughness. I am happy to spend the time getting to know you. It is not about achieving as much and as far as possible in the shortest possible time, rather than the opposite. The better we know each other, the better the play will be. For this reason, my regular and owned slaves, whom I know very well, are my absolute favorites to play with, which is why these are always prioritized first, while others may experience a long wait for meeting me.

I am always interested in your desires and fantasies and always play within the agreed limits. I expect the same from you. My desire is primarily to take control. This means that a session does not have to contain anything specific for me to find pleasure - because there are many ways for you to hand over or give up control. I have tried to write a little about the possibilities and what I enjoy.

There are certainly a lot that I have not mentioned and you are always welcome to ask about it by email.

 

I enjoy any form of fixation. In fact, I have a bit of a hard time if my slave is not fixed during a session. It takes away some of the control that I turn on. Fixation can be done in many different ways, for shorter or longer periods of time and with different tools. Leather belts, ropes, chains, spreader bars, cellophane, handcuffs - just to name a few. Fixation can be very gentle, where ex. only your hands are tied, but it can also be total fixation, where you will experience a minimum of movement. A fixation can also be extremely hard, as in a torture fixation, where your limbs are stretched and convulsed or a fixation over a longer period of time, where it tightens more and more around your body. I must not forget to mention suspension, i.e. a fixation where you hang and your feet are not on the floor. It is definitely one of my favorites. But fixation can also be of the senses, i.e. a sensory deprivation. It can be done with the well-known gags and blindfolds - but there are countless options such as a mouth opener and fixation of the nose or eyes. By depriving you of one sense, the other senses will be sharpened. Both parts, i.e. being able to decide how little or much you should be able to move, as well as which senses should be deprived and others maintained and sharpened, are something that turns me on.

 

Slave training can mean many things, so if it is part of your desire and/or fantasy, it is important that we talk together, and you clarify what you associate with slavetraining. I am probably not the big "shut up, pace and direction" type (I call it the German style), as I find it extremely easy to smile and laugh and this is for me an important part of any form of pleasure & sex. So, if it is the "German style" you want, then you should probably look elsewhere. What I associate with slave training is that I educate and shape you into the best toy that you can be for me. Slave training can also be more specific and in limit periods of time. It can be, for example, being trained to receive x-number of whips, to receive x-size analtoys, to receive x-number of liters of my champagne (urine) or within objectification, where you are educated to be, for example, a good ashtray, good mat, or comfortable chair. All of the examples mentioned are something that turns me on and periodic training with a goal is definitely something I find really fun and challenging. It could also be that you turn on being trained to become a good slut and about that I got to add something of important: Feminization only turns me on to some extent. I am very heterosexual. That is why it is important for me to be able to focus on you as a man. If the man becomes too feminine, I turn off. For that reason, feminization is only something I do, as part of humiliation and degradation. That is where/the way it works for me.

The word Humiliation covers a lot. Degradation, ridicule, ignoring, mockery and insult could easily be associated with the word. Maybe you just mean humiliation, in the form of kinky talk and here it is quite natural for me to comment or say a little during sessions that makes you understand, what you are to me. Humiliation can for example also be being spat on, being pissed on, getting slapped or being stepped on, but it can also be you being chained in a cell or cage, while you can only watch, all the while I am enjoying myself on/with another slave. Maybe you will find enough humiliation in my natural arrogance and therefore it is extremely important that we talk together about what humiliation is for you, otherwise it could become uncomfortable, as in "too close" and that is precisely why a talk about definition and boundaries is important beforehand.

 

Yes, of course I enjoy being worshipped. But since I do not offer sexual contact - worship is limited to slaves being allowed to worship my hands, boots, stilettos and/or feet. You can worship my ass when it is clothed, and I will also only face sit you when I am clothed.

 

Many people mistakenly believe that CBT has to be super hardcore and that is not the case. CBT can be something as gentle as simply taking control of your cock with a soft bondage of the cock, balls or both, added with small squeezes and a little spanking, maybe even with a soft intimate whip. Even with some weights, soft clamps, electro and urethral stimulation I would be able to play with in a gentle way, where it will not hurt as much as some fear. You should not be so afraid to try it, especially not because it is something that I really like. CBT can of course be hard and extreme, where different tools are used. It can be hard bindings, hard stretching and twisting, hard intimates, thrusts, caning, sharp spikes, blocking, needles, hard and or sharp pinches, hard punches and kicks, branding, scarification etc. If you mention CBT, I will assume you mean the soft end. It is only if you mention that you want some of the mentioned hard topics that I will include it in the game. With that said, I should add that if you are into hard CBT, then you have found the right one, because it can never be violent enough for me.

 

Spanking, whipping, caning - dear child has many names and it is certainly something I enjoy, although in a limited time frame. The thing about standing with a flogger and a paddle and beating loose is not what appeals to me the most. I know that warming up is necessary - but honestly, I am a little bored. On the other hand, I love building up that anticipation and excitement, which for me is necessary for a good session, and absolutely essential in a session where whipping is included. Walking around you while your body hangs freely accessible to my blows, looking you in the eyes and letting you believe that you know when the next blow will hit - that is actually probably what turns me on the most about giving whipping. Feeling how the skin accepts, becomes more sensitive and changes structure is something I am very aware of and enjoy including this part in the game. For this, I can, for example, use my nails, a stimulation wheel or a warm spittle and in this way I also allow you to feel how my whips change the feeling in your skin. I especially like the long thin whips, riding whips and canes. Whips don't have to be hard and they don't have to leave marks. Whipping can easily be given in an extremely sensual and arousing way. Many people want the slightly harder whipping sessions, but must not get marks and unfortunately I must write that I cannot whip particularly hard and at the same time guarantee you that you will not get marks. Some get marks very easily, while others do not, so it is impossible for me to guarantee that hard whippings will not leave marks.

 

Yes, damn it. In my opinion, real men can be fucked in the ass! Strapon - I certainly can't get enough of that... if you're clean inside, mind you! If you don't know how to do this, you'll get a little guide here and the option of rinsing is of course available in my studio. In addition to the many whips in my studio, the next most popular are dildos! I have them in all sorts of different sizes, so there's definitely a size that's good for you. Over the years, I've had a lot of inquiries about whether I can guarantee that the slave will experience an anal orgasm and neither I nor anyone else can guarantee that for you. It's something that we explore and perhaps discover together, and it takes time. Everyone is different, including objections and some will never experience an anal orgasm. Anal experiences don't have to be with dildos, they can also be with butt plugs, hole spreaders or with a finger or the whole hand.

 

Sessions that includes other people, whether it's another slave or another Domina, requires planning and an additional fee. It's not like there are other people available for sessions, when I'm in my Studio. So, it's perfectly okay to wish for this and I will do what I can to make your wish come true, but it's something that has to be planned. At times, many people want slave union/slaveonslave/bisex and it's not often that I can offer this. If you have a fantasy of being the active part in a bisex session, there is a greater likelihood that I can fulfill your wish than if you have a great desire to be the passive part in a bisex session.